Even though it's cold out, there are certain times when a sweater just won't do. When we're hitting the club with our girlfriends or attending a cocktail party with our boy du jour, we want to look a little sexy, and sometimes that requires showing a little skin. But we don't want to be cold, of course, so we like to bring along a little wrap, like this Pure Pashmina Wrap, $59.99 at The Pashmina Store.

While we're always fans of a black cashmere shawl, but gray is a great option, too. It works with just as many colors as black, but has the benefit of being a little unexpected. Plus, when it's as light as this one, it has an almost metallic appeal.

Wear this with a dress, or pair it with a sparkly cami and jeans -- just don't follow any rules, because an accessory like this should be fun!