Buying Guide: How To Find The Right Pillow For You (PHOTOS)

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You might think that the key to a good night's sleep is a good mattress or a futon (which is important and true), but the pillow that you rest your head on is just as crucial. We've all woken up with a crick in the neck feeling unrested and groggy, and that has everything to do with your pillow(s).

The right pillow should comfortably provide support for your head and your neck, and it shouldn't deflate or lose its fluffiness quickly.

Whether it's goose down-filled or Tempur-Pedic, here are some basic notes to keep an eye out for when you're scavenging January's white sales for a new one or simply looking to switch out your old ones.

Know the pillow fill. The most common fills for pillows are down feathers, synthetic/polyester fibers and foam. Natural goose down feather pillows are long-lasting and excellent in terms of comfort, so that's what we would go for even though they can be a bit pricey. A more cost-friendly option would be synthetic/polyester fiber pillows, which are generally hypoallergenic, feels like down and are machine washable. For firmer support, spongy memory foam and Tempur-Pedic pillows are the way to go. But foam pillows are known to retain heat, so if you sweat easily we suggest you shy away.

Consider thread counts. Simply put, the higher the thread count in a pillow the more durable and plush it will feel. However, we've found that a standard-size 20" by 26" pillow with a 300 thread count is cost-efficient and comfortable to sleep on. But if you're looking for something more luxurious, we'd go with a pillow that has 500-800 thread counts. Of course, 1,000 thread count pillows are great, but you'll also be paying a hefty price for it.

The fluff factor. A fluffier a pillow provides better cushioning and is longer lasting. A fluffy pillow also means that fresh air is still able to travel through it. Contrastingly, a lifeless one that's deflated and flat signifies that the pillow can no longer trap air, rendering it not ideal for giving comfortable support. To test fluffiness, fold a pillow in half and see if it unfolds on its own or give it a big hug and see if it fluffs back up. If not, you might have to look for a new pillow.

Sleeping position matters. Finally, how you position yourself in bed can really determine the type of pillow you'll need. For example, if you sleep on your back, make sure you get a fluffier pillow that lifts your head and chin, which can help with breathing and snoring.

Click through our slideshow below to find some of our favorite picks for pillows that feel right:


 
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factorystock1
If your not 1st your Last
06:05 AM on 01/17/2012
I like a good medium pillow, not soft, not to hard, for to sleep on and a good firm pillow for support of my womans bottom for the pushin'. lol
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RosieRetro
Military Retiree/Veteran non-aligned Independent
02:41 AM on 01/17/2012
Those expiration dates on synthetic polyester fiber-fil pillows and comforters is the date when the fiberfill will start to deteriorate and the off-gassing will be at its worse. I switched over to goose-down pillows and had no more problems sinus problems. A high thread count on a goose-down pillow is to keep those little fluffy down pin feathers from working their way through the threads. Although it happens in higher thread counts when you wash the pillows, it is not nearly as bad as if a lower thread count is used. A smaller down pillow that we purchased for our oldest son in Germany has lost a lot of down due to the pillow cover being made out of cheap cotton cloth vs the much higher thread count of my more expensive pillows. My husband has no problem with his stained over-used fiber-fil and refuses to allow me to replace it. For some goose-down are more sanitary and don't off-gas like polyester. I also replaced our comforter with a goose-down one. Although they are pricey, they are lighter and warmer than most polyester-fiber fill, and most have a lifetime guarantee. If you consider the cost of never having to replace your comforter again, then it is worth the money paid. We use a duet cover since most down-filled comforters are white, and we have pets who jump on our bed.
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whoknew222
I learn something new every day.
05:06 AM on 01/17/2012
Sounds like a plan. While I appreciate a heavy comforter, weight can be accomodated as another cover for the pets works well. (Even though the pets are only 10 lbs each, I often wake up unable to move as they have me pinned on each side like I did my baby when I first was learning to keep her warm, poor thing. :) I need more down in my new pillow but the seams are all sewn shut. I'll try a higher count cover over that and see if that helps. If not, I'll buy another and add more feathers as I need to. It's frightening to know I may spend many years perfecting the art that I learned from one pillow. Where's Mom when you need her? And where did she get that pillow?
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rewith85man
02:29 AM on 01/17/2012
I recently bought a Sobakawa pillow on Amazon.com. But, the pillow is kindly too hard for me.

I really want a good pillow I can rest my head, feel heavenly, and keep for a long time.
11:29 PM on 01/16/2012
I don't think it matters how much one spends on a pillow, as long as it's comfortable & you get a good nights sleep. I've purchased the "fluffier" pillows, only to find that they're "too tall" and I need something slimmer. I'm a side sleeper or belly sleeper, so I hug my pillow. Plus, I sometimes have to share it with my dog!!!
06:02 AM on 01/17/2012
Buy American
05:07 PM on 01/17/2012
Great idea! I always TRY!! (One can normally find USA made linens & things, but SOME things are almost impossible to find! Like electronics- which I rarely buy)
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Vincent Van Der Hyde
The truth will set you free.
06:37 PM on 01/10/2012
And here I thought this would be about adultery.......
11:30 PM on 01/16/2012
You silly!!!
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Durt Bagg
I know dirt.
06:21 PM on 01/10/2012
OMG this changed my life!
06:06 PM on 01/10/2012
Why would the thread count matter when it comes to pillows? Don't you put pillowcases over them?
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whoknew222
I learn something new every day.
05:17 AM on 01/17/2012
The thread count allows for the feathers and air to escape. The higher the count the longer it takes to squeeze out the air and feathers and the cloth lasts longer and and less feathers escape and is more durable when cleaning.
07:21 AM on 01/17/2012
Ah, that makes sense. Thank you!
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KOisGod
To thine own self be true
04:01 PM on 01/10/2012
I use a contoured memory foam pillow that let's my head line up with my spine, since I'm a side sleeper. I also put a smaller "couch" pillow between my legs and under my belly to support my back. We have a sleep # bed with a pillow top + we have 3" of memory foam on top of that.

For Christmas we bought a "sleep machine" from Brookstone, which has 15 difference peaceful tones you can play. It has a timer for 30, 60 and 90 minute 'on' times. Or, you can let it play all night.

Ahhhhh -
12:25 AM on 01/17/2012
I tried the sleep foam...while very comfy, I found myself dripping in perspiration, an usual occurence for me. My long hair would be soaked. I had to throw out a $75 pillow which made me sad because it was comfy. After that, I was fearful of the memory mattresses...sure that they would be comfortable, but equally sure my body would wake up drenched!
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02:10 PM on 01/10/2012
Other first world problems call you a prima dona.
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jeffp26
01:29 PM on 01/10/2012
I guess the person who wrote this article would be properly called a pillow ho.
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HHGodd
Ronald Reagan: Deficit Hawk!
01:18 PM on 01/10/2012
I know I'm sleeping on the wrong pillow. I drooled all over mine so I'm using my girlfriend's until mine gets washed.
12:26 AM on 01/17/2012
Now that made me laugh!
06:04 AM on 01/17/2012
Duct tape be the answer for thou.
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MikeDu
Both salubrious and lugubrious concurrently.
12:48 PM on 01/10/2012
All of the pillows pictured appeared waaaay overstuffed. What works best for me is *minimum* feather stuffing. I need a pillow that can be bent, folded ,crushed, moulded, shaped as my night progresses.
01:30 AM on 01/17/2012
Hi Mike,

I agree! I bought 2 feather pillows last month that were soft and fluffy. After I put them in pillowcases, they got FIRM. Seems that pillowcases squish all the feathers together and don't allow the loft. (even the king size are not wider, just longer. I better just sew some myself and not make such a big deal out of it.
12:30 PM on 01/10/2012
Consider latex pillows from Hollandia International. They are amazing, don't retain heat, and maintain their shape over a long period of time. 2 US locations.
11:46 AM on 01/10/2012
That Tempur-Pedic is the best pillow I have ever owned. Well worth $100.
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Brian Workman
11:44 PM on 01/16/2012
$100+ Really!?!?!?

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