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I'm Obsessed With My Red Lipstick

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Slowly but surely, red lipstick has taken over my life. I now buy clothes for it. I build outfits around it. I select colors that will look good with it. I require pockets in which I can carry it. I apply it at my desk without a mirror and I can now even apply it while walking. I really love my red lipstick.

My love for lipstick was probably passed down from my mother, who rightly wonders why a woman would apply Chapstick when she could apply lipstick. But I didn't wear red until I met the right shade a couple years ago -- "It Girl" by Sephora. It's got a lot of orange-y pop, and it's not really an exaggeration to say that putting it on in the morning makes my day.

I'll admit that I'm kind of evangelical about red lipstick. In a somewhat extreme act, I recently held down my red-haired-yet-red-lipstick-resistant friend Bethany and applied it to her mouth. But when I was done, even she had to admit she looked great.

When you wear red lipstick, it transforms an outfit. It's like the best kind of jewelry (which I love, too).

And in case I don't sound crazy yet, I occasionally panic that a color with as ephemeral a name as "It Girl" will be discontinued, so I go to Sephora and buy a few more tubes. At this point I have stockpiled enough to last me for the next 27 years. Like I said, I really love my red lipstick.

This originally ran on Refinery29.com.

 
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10:59 PM on 12/30/2011
i am so self conscious to wear red, or atleast i used to be. Now that a new year is coming, and we have new years resolutions, it's time i show my confidence and personality through sexy red!
03:46 PM on 12/12/2011
I am so glad you love your red lips! I do too (mine, that is, lol!) Have you ever tried Red Apple Lipstick? They are one of my new faves as they have outstanding customer service, and they don't sacrifice quality for being gluten/paraben free. Just thought I'd pass it along!
02:39 PM on 12/12/2011
Nothing wrong with you women wearing red lipstick, just be sure to compliment it with red nails and toes.
02:38 PM on 12/12/2011
I've never liked the look of red or bright lipstick and will NEVER understand how a man could ever kiss a woman wearing it. And don't bother telling me the new stuff won't rub off. I once had a woman serve me a cup of coffee that had - apparently unbeknowst to her - a big red lipstick stain on the edge. As she was a client, not a friend, I said nothing, just turned the cup around and drank from the other side. I wouldn't be so "tactful" today...it was one of my more gross food experiences. And if any woman with red lips ever tried to kiss me, she wouldn't get very far...
01:53 PM on 12/12/2011
I have orangey reds, blueish reds, brownish reds, shiny reds, matte reds, red lip gloss...you can't have enough! It is a power color and I always feel confident when I wear it. Go red!!!!
12:51 PM on 12/12/2011
I avoided it forever because it always looked funny on me. I felt like a kid playing dress up. Now I'm obsessed, even with different hues of red. it feels powerful and sexy.
12:21 PM on 12/12/2011
I LOVE red lipstick!!!! I wish I could buy 10 different shades of red. I love it!! I only have 2 reds right now. One is more orange-y looking then red. Heres my problem I have with the red.....it never stays on for more then an hr!! Itll come off and all you see if the red lipliner. GR, How do I get it to stay on for 8 hrs?
11:52 AM on 12/12/2011
Wow, I finally found someone outside of my family, who feels the way I do about RED lipstick!!! My Grandmother Essie Mae started the tradition of wearing Red lipstick in my Family! At the age of 92 she continues to wear RED lipstick!.........and every woman who descended from Essie Mae wears Red Lipstick. I have an affinity for the Blue Reds Like MAC Red by MAC Cosmetics or Radiant Red By Fashion Fair Cosmetics. Oh and Estee Lauder has fabulous lipgloss "Wet Cranberry" that is simply beautiful!!!! Continue to Go RED!
03:48 PM on 12/12/2011
You should try RED! or Love My Kiss from Red Apple. They are gorgeous!
11:43 AM on 12/12/2011
Me too! Women always tell me that red is out and men tell me how beautiful it looks on me. All I know is that it makes me feel good and i like the way it looks so I'm going to keep wearing it!
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pslcitizen
Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change.
07:13 AM on 12/12/2011
Red doesn't work on everybody. Also, there's several different shades, so make sure you get the right one. But really, unless you have perfect, white teeth, it just draws attention to your flaws. I'd prefer to be pretty in pink!
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10:49 AM on 12/12/2011
Red lipstick with blue undertones make your teeth look whiter and makes white teeth really POP!
isisreptiles
I make no apologies for being who I am.
04:46 AM on 12/12/2011
I don't like red lipstick. I've never worn it, probably never will.
11:35 PM on 12/11/2011
when my wife puts red lipstick on , it means "catch me if you can" and i do , chase her down kiss her AND......you know !!! It's hot !!!!!
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09:31 PM on 12/11/2011
well. it looks good. keep it up
09:27 PM on 12/11/2011
Well, It looks beautiful on you! I am all for doing things that help lift the spirits and make you feel good. I usually opt for cherry or strawberry chapstick but I do have to say that I feel good when I find that perfect shade of red lipstick.
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Anya Strzemien
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01:08 PM on 12/12/2011
Thank you! What did I do to deserve all these incredibly generous comments? Thank you everyone!
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Jeff McConnell
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08:13 PM on 12/11/2011
I am obsessed with your red lipstick, too, baby.

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