Ask Styledash: Gift for our 3rd anniversary
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Last week, a friend of Styledash asked for help in finding a gift for his wife for their 3rd wedding anniversary. After getting over the amazement that marriage has lasted that long (we live in LA and all we hear about our "marriages" that last no longer than the morning line at Starbucks), we started to panic. Third anniversary? What does one get one's spouse for a third anniversary?
Leather.
Putting visions of chaps and riding whips aside, we decided that a handbag would be the perfect leather gift. With a budget of $100-$200, and a willingness to go slightly over if it promised benefits, we found nine bags that would be perfect:
- Kenneth Cole Large Buckle Satchel - for a woman who has an entire shelf of black or brown leather bags, red is a great addition to spice things up. $204 at Bluefly.com
- Cole Haan "Paige" Medium Tote - A classic Cole Haan bag will always be the quintessential piece and will last forever, just like your marriage. $186 at Bluefly.
- BCBG Aloe Leather "Montana" Handbag - Shaped like a Boston bag, this handbag is functional and fashionable, especially in the brownish green aloe color. $161 at Bluefly.
- Hype "Canela" Satchel - Though camel color is usually associated with the warmer months, the Canela satchel is sturdy enough to work for fall and winter. $135 at Bluefly.com.
- Hype Chocolate Leather "Assago" Shoulder Bag - Chocolate colored leather is the perfect all-around bag since it dark color works well with both black and brown. $113 at Bluefly.com
- Via Spiga Pewter "Madeline" Leather Hobo - The hobo, though a relatively new-again trend, is now here to stay. In pewter leather, it's definitely "in" for the metallic trend of fall and winter. At Bluefly.com
- Via Spiga "Neela" Tassel Hobo - Another hobo style, and perhaps the best bargain of the bunch, the Neela is slightly more interesting with the addition of a tassel. $99 at Bluefly.com
- Furla Ivory Leather Logo Tote - Who says you can't wear (or carry) white in the winter? Furla certainly doesn't, with its simple, sophisticated ivory leather logo tote. $94 at Bluefly.com.
- Michael Kors "Wetherby" Large Shoulder Bag - This is the splurge for our friend, but the stylish lines of a functional shoulder bag are wrth it. It's Michael Kors. $348 at ShopBop.
Well, technically, you should have been thinking about Holiday travel about three months ago so that you could reserve your airline tickets and book a rental car. What I'm really talking about is how cute you're going to look sashaying through the airport like the global jetsetter you are with this
Just about any bag will do as an overnighter -- something small to carry a change of clothes (or at least accessories to change your "look"), toiletries, and of course, makeup to freshen up. However, sometimes we like to be discreet about our overnight stays, so a bag that doesn't scream out "luggage!" or "totebag!" is probably better. It isn't hard to do these days, as regular handbags that women carry are rivaling a Samsonite in size.
I'm not sure why it's considered a "must-have" for fall this year, since I've always associated plaid with fall every year, but this year, it's especially hot in everything from shorts and pants to full plaid-print dresses to accessories. If you haven't worn plaid since wearing your boyfriend's over-sized
Sunday - Just because it's autumn doesn't mean you can't keep wearing shorts, as long as they are made of cool-weather appropriate fabrics like wool. If you go with a truly short pair of shorts, like these
Monday, back to work - Did someone say
Tuesday - Short and pants are fine, but when I think of plaid, the first thing I think of are skirts. I think it's the result of years in private school, and a
Wednesday - A crisp white shirt is a natural with plaid on the bottom, but if you're a jeans-wearing gal, you can put plaid on top with any number of
Thursday - If you can't get enough plaid, wear it all over in a dress. Alexander McQueen's casual line McQ has a 100% cotton flannel
Friday - Plaid is showing up in accessories from head to toe. Urban Outfitters has a
Saturday - Maybe you're not ready to add plaid to your wardrobe of wearables. Stick to plaid in bags. Paul & Joe has a totally 
