
Anywhere else, a November wedding would be painful, but here in southern California, the weather in November can be as balmy as the Spring. However, why someone would want to get married during Thanksgiving weekend when there are at least three other weekends available is beyond me, but a girlfriend of mine is having her wedding this afternoon. Summer weddings are easy - the supply of pretty, elegant summer cocktail dresses is endless. However, something for fall is a little tricky, particularly for a wedding. It's not necessarily cold, but it is autumn, it gets dark early, and many of the evening dresses becoming available are geared to Holiday parties. That means they are just a little too shiny. They're not too shiny for me, but they're a little too shiny for a wedding.
My mother used to tell me that I should never wear anything remotely white to a wedding except for pearls and my underwear because white is the
bride's color. I am ignoring her because 1) who wears white after Labor Day? and 2) the tuxedo-style trousers I am wearing are actually
winter white (similar to
these trousers by BCBG). On top, I'll be wearing a slightly long black satin strapless top (similar to this top) with heavy ruching -- come on girls, Thanksgiving was two days ago, so see what I mean about a wedding during Thanksgivign weekend? -- skyscraper stilletto pumps with a viciously pointed toe that just peeps out beyond the edge of my trousers. For other accessories, I'm wearing a strand of pearls, pearl earrings, and I've got a vintage beaded black tiny clutch from my Mom to carry. Not too bad?