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How To Be Organized: What The Average Purse Weighs And How To Organize It (PHOTOS)

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"Do you have a pen?" my friend asked.

"Yeah sure, just go into my purse," I said.

But what my friend found wasn't a pen, but approximately 5 handfuls of receipts, a small notebook and 4 lipsticks/lip glosses. There was at pen, at some point, in this fashionable garbage pail that I call a purse. And even worse, I had actually downsized from a larger satchel to the smallest purse I could get without it being a clutch, because I had noticed that the former just attracted stuff like a junkyard magnet.

Let's be honest: We put lots and lots of stuff in our purses, without even thinking about it. My most vivid memory of my friend Adrienne isn't the time we tried to find the best burger in Manhattan, but the time she upended her tote en route to a lovely restaurant in an effort to find her wallet. There, on a perfectly smooth marble step, she went through 3 (hardcover) books, a makeup bag, two journals, packs of gum and a water bottle. I had to ask her how it all happened.

"I'm not really sure..." she said.

And that's another thing. A messy purse isn't a time capsule of the day you decided to throw in the contents of your junk drawer. It's a work in progress. A teeny tiny taxi receipt, tossed into a purse, will soon become...well, five handfuls.

Though I know I wasn't alone in this, I had to see just how much I was carrying on an ordinary day. Out came the scale. Then, I made all the Stylelist, Huffington Post Style and Stylelist Home editors around me weigh their bags. And then I made them show me everything that was in there.

How did everyone fare? See the slideshow below.

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And here I thought that buying a smaller bag would mean that I wouldn't have a problem with messiness.

All photos: Bobby Doherty

TOTAL: 56.5 lbs
Average: 6.27 lbs

Altogether, our bags weighed 56.5 lbs. But the average purse (around Huffington Post Style, Stylelist and Stylelist Home) weighs about 6.27 lbs. This weight did not include the laptops that normally went into many of these handbags. And even though many editors pared down the contents of their purses, there was still room for improvement. While one can argue the need for a few lipsticks, it's harder to argue the need for an empty pack of gum. Or a two-month-old jury summons.

So how can we lighten the load? "I make a point of tossing those anything made of paper every morning before I leave my house, keeping important receipts and notes in my wallet or in my notebook," says Stylelist intern Jada Wong, who had the most well-organized bag in the bunch.

The receipt issue seems to be a big one. Stylelist Home cleaning experts Stacey Platt and Sarah Nina Hayon collectively had this to say:

Rather than haphazardly tossing things into your handbag, take an extra minute to put cash or change in your wallet, receipts in their designated place, or a colleague's business card in your planner or notebook. Aim to have nothing floating at the bottom of your bag except larger items like your wallet, eyeglass case, or planner.

From looking at everyone's stuff, I could see that the better organized bags had a few things in common. Such as:

- They tended to have light-colored linings. This made random junk easier to see than a chaotic pattern.
- They definitely did not contain a book or magazine. Having a book or magazine just seems to invite more junk inside.
- It was a paper-free place. No business cards, no tissues, no receipts. If necessary, they went inside a checkbook.
- Their wallets were larger...in size. My small wallet (given to me by my late grandmother) can't hold a dollar inside unless I fold them twice. Which I never had time to do, so any currency ended up tossed inside the bag. A check-sized wallet neatly holds cash without an origami time-out.

Now, what about me and my messy purse? Truth is, I was pretty tired of carrying around my 4.5 lb bag. So I completely started from scratch, filing away important receipts and throwing out everything else. I only carry my phone, wallet (with cash inside) and a lipstick. OK, two lipsticks. But only because red lipstick is really important this season. I also keep a small (very small) envelope as a temporary holding spot for receipts.

So far, this minimalist approach has worked. My purse hasn't gained a pound since.

For extra credit, check out these great organizing articles:

How To De-Clutter Your Wallet
How To Get A Lipstick Stain Out Of Your Purse
Another Use For A Lint Roller: Handbag Cleaner?

 
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Cassandra L Chapa
05:21 PM on 12/28/2011
I find the bigger the purse, the more you can fit into it...keep it small and you should be fine!
09:15 PM on 12/20/2011
What would you recommend for a great black purse that goes over the shoulder and under 200$???
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hman570
09:10 AM on 12/17/2011
Will mention this to my wife and I already know the answer, Who cares what is in someones handbag, and mind your business.
05:35 AM on 12/17/2011
I didn't see one hairbrush! What's with that?? I can't live without mine.
08:21 AM on 12/17/2011
The second woman, Brooke Bobb had a brush.
04:05 AM on 12/17/2011
Wow! I have to go weigh my purse now! I have a lot more in my purse than those ladies did, and I thought I was doing pretty good. I guess I take after the Boy Scout's motto of "be prepared." I just don't like needing something and not having it when I'm out. Gosh, I've got my wallet, facial tissue, hand sanitizer, hand cream, a handkerchief, nail clippers, 2 emery boards, a lighter, cell phone, 4 lipsticks, 1 lip balm, mirror, brush, coupons, appointment cards, at least 3 pens, 1 Sharpie, pill box, allergy pen, mints, gum, note book, address book, keys, extra car key, and various receipts that come and go. Geesh, now I feel like a pack rat! LOL
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Tanya OaksBrooks
Sarcastic, left-wing, science-loving rocker chick
03:49 AM on 12/17/2011
People love to roll their eyes and make comments about all the "junk" I carry around. Those same people come running to me as soon as they need a tissue, some hand lotion or Purell, or a pen.
01:44 AM on 12/17/2011
Purse? How about a pocket? All I need goes into two pockets. The end. Yes, I'm a woman. A purse-free woman.
12:08 PM on 12/17/2011
the only things I ever carry with me are my phone, keys, license, and debit card. my girlfriends think I am nuts, because I am even a girly girl, but I don't need the literal baggage.
01:26 PM on 12/17/2011
I find there are a lot of things i just don't need. I can buy, borrow or do without them. All my card things are in a metal wallet along with a little cash. I'm past the age of tampons, but when I was younger, I had them in the glove compartment. You can always improvise in a bathroom stall. All that said, travel is very different. Then I need a multi-compartment shoulder bag.
07:07 PM on 01/21/2012
What about in the summer! Most of my clothes don't have pockets! And my boobs get sweaty when I keep too much plastic in my bra.
12:53 AM on 12/17/2011
I got tired of all of the "floatsam" in my bag, so I bought 2 small/medium sized makeup bags and everything has been organized into those. The first holds: first aid kit, hand sanitizer, pens, tums, advil, many many chapsticks. The second one holds lots of feminine products but only gets dropped in during "that time". Other wise than that, my bag only holds my wallet, the one makeup bag, my phone and my planner.
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Sam Curcuro
Tell It Like It Is
12:50 AM on 12/17/2011
I was in line to check in on a flight out of Norwich. The lady in front of me with a child was on an extensive trip going to several places overseas. She was in a panic because she thought she had lost her tickets on the plane from which she had just gotten off of. She was madly tearing though her bags, pockets and purse. The counter person kept trying to calm her down and told her to look in her purse carefully. He went through this about 3 times and finally told her, empty your purse. She did...there was the packet of tickets. The ticket envelope was about half an inch thick. Go figure! Purses are dark mysterious places that eat things, especially car keys!
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ms velma
Question everything
10:39 PM on 12/16/2011
hmm. house keys, car keys, work keys, 1 tube lipstick, 1 tube chapstick, wallet, mail box key, hairbrush, comb, bottle of aspirin, 2 receipts, 5 ballpoint pens, holiday concert schedule, 1 business card, glasses cleaning cloth, 2 dry erase marker, 1 green hilighter, 1 small bottle lavendar oil, & the to-do list. Why am I carrying all this junk around?
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wtfyoutalkingabout
If you want to be happy, be.
02:34 AM on 12/17/2011
Sounds like mine.
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Tanya OaksBrooks
Sarcastic, left-wing, science-loving rocker chick
03:48 AM on 12/17/2011
Because the minute you take something out, you'll find that you need it!
04:55 AM on 12/17/2011
You are so right!!!!!!! :)
10:05 PM on 12/16/2011
I always had to laugh at my friend Dotti, she could never find anything in her purse. I often remarked to her that her purse was like a black hole because whatever was sucked in there never came back out.
10:01 PM on 12/16/2011
My wife's purse was the Bermuda Triangle, if she used my pen and then dropped it into her purse, it was never seen again. I was afraid of her purse and would never reach inside to get something when she would ask me to grab something out of her purse for her, I would always carry the whole purse for her to fish around in. There were things in her purse I didn't want to find.
09:56 PM on 12/16/2011
Tampons?
10:59 PM on 12/16/2011
I agree. Not a tampon in anyone's purse? Makes no sense. They either left them out, or these women are not very prepared.
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wtfyoutalkingabout
If you want to be happy, be.
02:34 AM on 12/17/2011
I questioned the same thing. I'm supposing since their names were published, it was for privacy reasons (although we all use them).
07:11 PM on 01/21/2012
Not everyone needs them! I carry a single tampon in case other people need one. I'm just lucky that my birth control takes care of it!
09:42 PM on 12/16/2011
The good thing is, when I need something...she can usually pull it right out of her purse!
09:21 PM on 12/16/2011
What's funny is watching my wife dump her purse to find her phone while she's getting a call!

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